Dare I say it? I’m not sure that I trust this horoscope! How can it guarantee that I’ll be motivated?
This is what I’ll do TODAY to get motivated for tomorrow:
- Leave my car at work and take the train. From the train station, I’ll walk 3.5 miles (or more). Tomorrow morning I’ll walk another 3.5 miles back to the train station. The cold air will wake me up!
- Do some extra stretches before going to bed
- Schedule a jog for tomorrow with my running buddy
- Sleep early so I can get up EXTRA early.
If you’re wondering why I am preparing for my work out tomorrow by doing extra exercise today, it’s to get the momentum going. If I go home, eat a big dinner, and lay around on the couch, will I really be motivated to get out of bed early the next day? Probably not. It sounds like a lot of effort to have to do a pre-workout before working out, but that’s actually what gets me excited to start the next day. If a little exercise can make me feel good, a more serious workout will make me feel GREAT!
This is also another variation of the small steps that life coaching advocates for. Once we remind ourselves that, “Hey, this isn’t as bad or difficult as I imagined,” we’re likely to give it another try. Expecting to achieve your goals without taking the necessary steps to get there is the equivalent of running a marathon without training for it. You’re very likely to fail!
You might think that I’m totally nuts with my exercise theory, but it has worked for me for over 20 years. I didn’t grow up doing sports nor did I join any teams as an adult, but I’ve been lucky to have been able discipline myself. Throughout the years, I’ve had long periods (even months) where I didn’t do much, but I knew I would get back to it and I did.
The biggest challenge is to really want to do it. Sure, work out buddies and fancy gym memberships are great motivators, but what happens when that friend is sick or the gym is closed? If you have experienced addiction personally or know someone who’s gone through it, I think you can understand this: YOU have to want to do it. No one can change the way you feel or convince you to get help. It might be a time when you hit rock bottom, or just a day where you are tired of being tired. I know, I know, that’s not helpful if you can’t relate to that. However, the thing to remember is that once you do decide that exercise is important in your life, there are plenty of people and resources out there to help you.
If you are curious, I’ve shared some of my tips below. I eat, drink, and get sick just like anyone else. What I’ve come to learn is that it’s all in the timing. The key is to set myself up for success the day before. This means that when I commit to 1 day of exercise, I am really committing to 2 days.
- START EARLY – the earlier the better. The only people I know that can get a fitness routine going are people who do it at the beginning of the day, before they get distracted with the rest of life. That means you must PRIORITIZE fitness. On some weekends, I’ll even wake up, work out, have breakfast and go back to sleep.
- SLEEP and REST – If you haven’t gotten enough rest or are sick, DON’T push yourself. It puts extra strain on your body and will prevent you from recovering! This morning ,I slept in my car (outside my job) for 40 minutes because I didn’t get enough sleep, so there is no shame!
- EAT WELL the night before. Yes, I know, you should eat well all the time, but it’s especially important at night because your food is digesting while you sleep. Chocolate cupcakes makes it so hard to wake up the next morning!
- NO ALCOHOL OR DRUGS the night before. Do you honestly think you can get up tomorrow?
- AVOID CAFFEINE as a stimulant to boost your exercise. A caffeine high can help you feel energized and run like the speed of light, but you will pay for it the next day. It pushes your body beyond what you’re really capable of and you might injure yourself. It’s happened to me and it sucks!
You’ll notice that I don’t mention anywhere that you should deprive yourself. If you want to drink, go drink. If you want pizza, have pizza. It’s just not wise to do it the night before you plan to work out. =)